Anne Mary Sibylla Abel Smith Grainger has become the longest-living descendant of Queen Victoria. She assumed this position after the death of Princess Astrid, Mrs. Ferner.
Anne was born in Kensington Palace on July 28, 1932, the first of three children of Lady May Cambridge (nee Princess May Helen Emma of Cambridge) and Sir Henry Abel Smith. She was the first grandchild of HRH Princess Alice, Countess of Athlone, and Alexander, 1st Earl of Athlone.
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She was baptized on August 27, 1932, at St. Mary's Abbots, Kensington. Queen Elizabeth (later the Queen Mother) was the primary godmother but could not attend. Princess Alice stood as proxy. The other godparents were Princess Sibylla of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha, Alexander Abel-Smith (Henry's brother), and Algernon Haber-Percy.
Princess Sibylla was Lady May's first cousin, the daughter of Prince Charles Edward, Duke of Albany, and, until 1918, Duke of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha. She was one of Lady May's bridesmaids, and at the November 1931 wedding, another bridesmaid, Princess Ingrid of Sweden, introduced Sibylla to her brother, Hereditary Prince Gustaf Adolf. They announced their engagement on June 16, 1932, and married at St. Moritz Kirche in Coburg on October 20.
In 1940, Lady May brought her three children to Canada for the duration of the Second World War, where they lived with their grandparents, Princess Alice and Lord Athlone, the Governor General of Canada. It was an "idyllic time, ice skating, tobogganing, and swimming in lakes. During her time in Canada, Anne became friends with her cousin, Princess Juliana of the Netherlands, and her two daughters, Beatrix and Irene, who had also sought refuge in Canada.
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| Lady May with her three children: Anne, Elizabeth and Richard |
The family returned to their home, Barton Lodge, in Winkfield, Berkshire, in 1946. The ties between the Abel Smiths and the Royal Family were close. Lady May's father, Lord Athlone, and Queen Mary were siblings, and her mother, Princess Alice, and King George V were first cousins, both grandchildren of Queen Victoria. Anne and her family were in the processions at Westminster Abbey for Elizabeth II's wedding (1947) and Coronation (1953) because their grandmother was a British princess.
In an interview with Woman Alive, Anne noted: "Back in England, I went to boarding school, then finishing school for three years. We studied art, cooking, sewing. In those days women were not prepared for a career, but for marriage."
She also said: "Church was very much a part of our lives. It was the done thing. No one talked about Jesus - about knowing God - or loving him. The place of the Bible was on the church lectern, in a pulpit, so few people read it themselves."
Anne was introduced into society in 1950, as she would turn 18 years old in July.
On June 21, 1950, Princess Margaret, only two years older, gave a dinner party at Buckingham Palace for Anne.
In November 1950, Lady Mary Cambridge, daughter of the 2nd Marquess of Cambridge, asked Anne to be one of her four bridesmaids. Anne and Lady Mary were second cousins.
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Princess Mary Adelaide - Alexander - May - Anne
The following Anne served as a bridesmaid at the wedding of the Hon. Christine Weld-Forester and the Hon. Richard Orde-Powlett. In 1953, Anne was one of the godparents of Christine and Richard's first child, Rosemary Victoria.
Only five months before her own wedding, Anne served once more as a bridesmaid at the wedding of Lady Alison Bruce and Cleveland Stewart-Patterson.
Queen Elizabeth II, Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother, and Queen Juliana of the Netherlands were present on December 14, 1957, when Anne married David Ian Liddell Grainger, son of Captain Henry Herbert Liddell Grainger (1886-1935) and Lady Muriel Bertie (1890-1980), daughter of the 12th Earl of Lindsey.
Other royal guests included the Princess Royal, the Duchess of Gloucester, the Duchess of Kent, Prince William and Prince Richard of Gloucester, Prince Michael and Princess Alexandra of Kent, Princess Alice, Countess of Athlone (Anne's grandmother), Princess Andrew of Greece, Princess Sibylla of Sweden and Lady Patricia Ramsay.
The choral wedding service took place at St. George's Chapel at Windsor Castle. Her father gave Anne away. The Times described her wedding dress as a "gown of champagne-colored satin, with a fitted bodice, high neckline and long sleeves, and a full skirt falling into a long train." The long Brussels lace veil, once owned by Queen Mary, was held in place by a "gold and diamond tiara," which the Duchess of Cambridge wore at Queen Victoria's Coronation. The Duchess was born Princess Augusta of Hesse-Cassel. In 1818, she married King George III's son, Prince Adolphus of Cambridge, Anne's great-great-grandfather.
Anne carried a "crescent bouquet of champagne-coloured butterfly orchids." Her bridal party included three pages, three child bridesmaids, and eight older bridesmaids, including Princesses Beatrix and Irene of the Netherlands, Princess Christina of Sweden, Elizabeth Abel Smith (Anne's younger sister), and Countess Victoria Adelheid of Castell-RĂ¼denhausen.
Christina and Victoria Adelheid were the bride's second cousins. Victoria Adelheid lived with Princess Alice, Countess of Athlone, in Kensington Palace. In 1960, she married John Miles Huntington-Whiteley.
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Victoria - Leopold - Charles Edward - Caroline Mathilde - Victoria Adelheid
The wedding breakfast was held in Windsor Castle's Waterloo Chamber.
The newlyweds moved into David's home, Ayton Castle, a 19th-century baronial mansion in the Scottish Borders, 5,6 miles from Berwick-upon-Tweed, where they raised five children: Ian (1959), Charles (1960), Simon (1962), Alice (1965) and Malcolm (1967).
In the 1970s, David Liddell Grainger began an affair with Lady de la Rue, the much younger wife of his neighbor, Sir Eric de la Rue, 4th Bt. This liaison led Anne to divorce her husband in 1981. After she left Ayton Castle, David's mistress moved in, also bringing her very ill husband. In the 1980s, Christine de la Rue gave birth to two sons. She married David in 1996, and they remained married until his death in 2007. David left the Ayton Castle estate to his elder son, Henry, by his second wife, disinheriting the children from his first marriage.
It was "our differences that drove us apart in the end, " Anne said. She moved in with her parents at Barton Lodge in Winkfield, Berkshire. She realized: "I needed to reassess my life."
She met and prayed with the local vicar at St. Peter's, Cranbourne, Berkshire. Anne confessed that she thought her "life had come to an end." The vicar responded emphatically: "Not at all! Absolutely not! God gives new beginnings."
Anne was grateful for this connection, which further developed her faith. She attended a Christian conference in London, where she met many people "who seemed to be alive with faith and energy and connection to Jesus."
Prayer helped.
"I felt something like golden rain falling down all around on me," Anne said. "Then it was as if all the anger, pain and hatred in me fell away....from that moment everything changed."
At the time, the Church of England did not allow women ministers, so when Anne went to Canada with a friend, she "saw many women in Christian ministry - speaking, preaching, praying for people. I had the sense Jesus wanted me to do the same."
Anne got involved with a two-year training program, Christian Life, at St. Mark's, Kennington, in London. She was hungry to grow in the knowledge of God and his ways." She learned how "not just to read the Bible, but to study it," acknowledging that she "knew very little about Jesus."
She moved to Kennington and became more involved with the "vibrant, multi-racial and ethnic" community, helping the St. Mark's vicar find housing for the homeless.
This led her to join a European teaching tour that lasted for three years, which helped her to grow in her relationship with Jesus.
In 1990, Anne committed to spending the rest of her life "doing work for Jesus and helping others." She joined a hospital ship ministry, sailing on the Anastasie to Africa, and spent the next years preaching the Word in Togo, Ghana, and the Ivory Coast.
Six years later, Anne attended a disciple training school with YWAM (Youth With a Mission) in Cape Town, South Africa. At 64, Anne was the oldest student. Of her time in Cape Town, she said: "My energy and hunger for more of God matched any of the young ones." She often prayed while walking. "I had a strong awareness of God's presence and sensed he was telling me I was to leave behind my former life and cleave to him."
She was called to serve in Africa. She returned to the ship, and God showed her where to get off to serve. Anne found her home in Pita, Guinea, located in the northwest part of the country. She was "deeply moved by the immense need."
Anne returned briefly to London, calling her children, saying: "Come and get what you want from the house. I'm leaving England, and going to live in Guinea.
Before she moved to Guinea in 2006, Anne divided her time between the hospital ship ministry and helping the poor in Brixton and other London neighborhoods. Usually dressed in shabby clothes, Anne would go door to door with her "battered charity tin," asking for donations to help the sick, according to an October 1998 profile in The Mirror.
According to her former daughter-in-law, Romana Rogoshewska, Anne still kept one foot in the royal world. "Even today, they still ring each other, and the Queen always makes a point of still inviting Anne to five-star functions such as Royal Ascot.
Anne, who called the Queen Lilibet, and the Queen would meet twice a year. "They chat away like the old friends they are. The Queen knows all of Anne's children and takes an interest in what they are doing," said Romana, the first wife of Anne's son, Simon.
She added: "Anne can come across as a crazy Born Again Christian fundamentalist....She cuts quite a bizarre figure with her posh accent. People often do a double take because she looks so much like the Queen."
In 1997, after 15 years of marriage, Simon, an airplane pilot, walked out on Romana, leaving her penniless.
"I thought charity started at home. When Simon left me a year ago, I phoned Anne and asked her to help me." According to Romana, Anne told her to "stop complaining" and read the Bible. She said that Anne plowed a lot of money into Christian missions, "but when I asked her for any financial help to pay my bills, she told me the Lord will provide."
Anne Grainger—she dropped Liddell some years ago —is now 94. She lives in Kennington, London, but remains very much a Christian missionary. In 1998, she told the Mirror: "I do missionary work taking the gospel to the less fortunate"


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