Monday, June 2, 2025

Grand Duchess Kira of Russia





If the First World War had not swept away the thrones of Russia and Germany, the marriage between Grand Duchess Kira of Russia and Prince Louis Ferdinand of Prussia would have been a grand dynastic alliance.  As war clouds gathered again over Europe, the marriage reminded many of a Europe when the Romanovs and the Hohenzollerns reigned supreme.   But in 1938, the Soviet Union was nearly two decades old, and the German Kaiser Wilhelm II lived in exile in the Netherlands.  In Wilhelm’s native Germany, Adolf Hitler was moving inexorably closer to establishing total hegemony over the European continent.


Prince Louis Ferdinand of Prussia, 31,  was the second son of Crown Prince Wilhelm and Crown Princess Cecilie. As the second son, he did not have the burden of inheritance as his older brother, Wilhelm. This changed in 1933, when Prince Wilhelm married Dorothea von Salviati.  Kaiser Wilhelm II disapproved of Wilhelm's marriage.  

Wilhelm was obligated to renounce his rights to the throne, and, more importantly, his position as the future head of the House of Hohenzollern.  (In 1940, Prince Wilhelm was killed in action, leaving behind his widow and two young daughters.)

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 Until his brother’s marriage, Louis Ferdinand had limited obligations. His grandfather had encouraged him to see the world. He received a Ph.D. in Argentina and had a rather public affair with the French-born film star Lily Damita, whom he followed to Hollywood. Louis Ferdinand learned about American productivity when he worked for Henry Ford in Detroit. 

Louis Ferdinand was smitten with Lily Damita. He wanted to follow her to Mexico, where he believed they would marry; he came to his senses when he realized Damita was exploiting their relationship for publicity purposes.

He returned to Germany, where he got a job with Lufthansa.  He was also conscripted into the Luftwaffe, although Prince Louis Ferdinand did not support National Socialism or Adolf Hitler.

Wilhelm’s renunciation emphasized Louis Ferdinand’s need to make an equal marriage.

Family connections played a role in the first meetings between Prince Louis Ferdinand and Grand Duchess Kira of Russia.   Kira’s mother, Victoria Melita, and Kaiser Wilhelm II were first cousins, as both were grandchildren of Britain’s Queen Victoria.

Louis Ferdinand and Kira were third cousins through Louis Ferdinand’s maternal grandmother, Grand Duchess Anastasia Mikhailovna of Russia, whose first cousin was Kira’s paternal grandfather, Grand Duke Wladimir Alexandrovitch.


Grand Duchess Kira Kirillovna of Russia was born on May 9, 1909, at the family’s apartment on the Avenue Henri Martin in Paris. She was the second daughter of Grand Duke Kirill Vladimirovich of Russia and Princess Victoria Melita of Edinburgh.  Her birth coincided with her parents’ return to Russia after their marriage was finally acknowledged by their cousin, Emperor Nicholas II.

Nicholas did not initially give permission for the marriage as Victoria Melita and Kirill were first cousins.  There was no question about Victoria Melita’s suitability as the wife of a Russian Grand Duke.  Her father was the second son of Queen Victoria and the Duke of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha in his own right until he died in 1900.  Her mother, Grand Duchess Marie Alexandrovna, was the daughter of Emperor Alexander II of Russia, whose brother, Wladimir, was Kirill’s father.  The Orthodox Church forbids marriage between two first cousins (as well as second and third cousins), and, thus, Nicholas could sanction an otherwise equal marriage.  Victoria Melita was also divorced from her first husband, Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig of Hesse and By Rhine, although none of the statutes in the Fundamental Laws refer to divorce.


Despite her royal connections, Victoria Melita’s divorce and affair with Grand Duke Kirill made her a social pariah.   The situation was worse for Ducky, the family nickname for the Malta-born Victoria Melita, because her former sister-in-law, Alix, married Nicholas II.  Alix and Ducky were also first cousins.   The Tsar was Kirill, and Victoria Melita's first cousin.

It was a tense situation for all.  Kirill and Ducky were married by a Russian Orthodox priest in October 1905.  Shortly afterward, Kirill was stripped of his title, military ranks, and everything connected to his Imperial position. He was also cut off from his imperial appanage.  The newlyweds did not have to worry about money, as they received substantial support from Kirill’s parents and Victoria Melita’s mother.

Kirill and Ducky settled into an apartment on the Avenue Henri Martin in Paris, although they spent winters at the Chateau Fabron, owned by Grand Duchess Maria Alexandrovna.

The couple’s first child, Maria, known as Mashka, was born at the Edinburgh Palace in Coburg in January 1907.  A few weeks before Maria’s birth, Victoria Melita, baptized according to the rites of the Anglican church, and confirmed in the Lutheran church, was received into the Orthodox church.

This was a significant decision for Victoria Melita, as she understood the importance of her act.  The following year, her mother-in-law, Grand Duchess Marie Pavlovna, “at her own spiritual prompting,” also joined the Orthodox church.  When she married Grand Duke Vladimir in 1874, Marie Pavlovna chose to remain Lutheran.  Circumstances, however, would make the Grand Duchess change her mind. 

Empress Alexandra’s youngest child and only son, Alexis, suffered from hemophilia, and it seemed unlikely that Alexandra, already the mother of five children, would have another child.   The next in the line of succession was Nicholas’s younger brother, Michael, who was unmarried in 1908. (His proposed marriage with Princess Beatrice of Edinburgh, Ducky’s youngest sister, came to naught as he was not permitted to marry his first cousin).  Michael was followed in the succession by his uncle, Grand Duke Vladimir, and his three sons, the eldest of whom was Kirill.



Nicholas eventually accepted the marriage. On July 15, 1907, he issued a decree conferring the title of Grand Duchess on Victoria Melita. She would now be known as Her Imperial Highness Grand Duchess Victoria Feodorovna of Russia. Kirill’s privileges were also restored. 

At least for the question of succession, Kirill’s position at court was further enhanced when Grand Duke Michael married morganatically in 1911, a year after his future wife gave birth to a son.  Michael did not lose his right to succeed to the throne.  According to the Fundamental Laws, his marriage was unequal, meaning his wife and child were not considered members of the Imperial Family.   At this time, it did not seem conceivable that the 300-year-old Romanov dynasty would end in a cellar in Ekaterinburg only seven years later.  But Kirill’s ambitious mother, Marie Pavlovna, sensed the throne would eventually be inherited by her eldest son, Kirill, and his family.

Nicholas II,  Alexandra, their five children, and the servants who had remained with them were all shot to death in the early hours of July 17, 1918.   One month earlier, Nicholas’ brother, Grand Duke Michael, who had become the emperor after his brother’s abdication, was executed along with a manservant.

Michael’s son, George, was not eligible for the succession; the next in line to the vacant throne was Grand Duke Kirill, who, with his wife, Victoria, and their three children, was living in Finland, in relative safety.  After Kirill had declared his allegiance to the Provisional Government, he and his family were given permission to leave Russia.  They were allowed to take only a few possessions with them.  Ducky sewed precious jewels into the family’s clothes.  Their departure had been “quietly arranged” by Alexander Kerensky, the head of the Provisional Government.    Grand Duke Kirill and his two daughters left for the train in one car.  Seven months pregnant, Victoria followed in a second car, taking a different route to the train station.

The exit documents were presented, and the family got on the train with little fuss.    Princess Kira, who was eight years old at the time, remembers that their travel passes “were respected and we were not molested on the way.”

The little girl also noticed the lack of imperial trappings in the car – “red carpets, special comforts.” 

  The family stayed for two weeks at Haiko in Borgo (now Porvoo, Finland), at friends' villa, before moving into a rented house in town. On August 30, 1917, Ducky gave birth to a son, Wladimir.


It was not an easy exile for the family, as the situation in Finland soon disintegrated into anarchy.  By the end of the year, civil war spread throughout the country.  Even the most basic food essentials, including milk and sugar, were challenging.   The country was in a state of collapse, but Kirill and Victoria refused to leave, as they still believed that Russia would emerge victoriously, and the monarchy would be restored.    The French government and the King of Sweden made overtures to the Grand Ducal couple to assist their departure.  But the family would not leave Finland.

  In March 1918, the Bolshevik government signed the Brest-Litovsk treaty, ending the war between Russia and Germany. Finland’s civil war also ended, and the country was now, for the time being, in German hands. Although they were largely safe from the Bolsheviks, life in Finland was difficult for Kirill, Ducky, and their three children.

    Ducky could contact several relatives, including her sister, Crown Princess Marie of Roumania, and her first cousin, Crown Princess Margaret of Sweden, who sent food and clothing parcels.

Kira described her family’s plight in a letter to her Aunt Marie:  “ We go for long walks and hunt for mushrooms in the woods.  There are many wildflowers in bloom.  Each Friday we go to the cinema.  On Saturday, we have games.”

Kira could not hide her sadness from her aunt, Missy, whom she barely knew.  “I often wonder if we will ever go away from here.  We are getting so dreadfully homesick but I suppose we are better off here. When there is no more sugar I think we will miss it very much.  Our lessons keep us occupied, otherwise, we are rather bored sometimes.”

The family lived in Finland until the summer of 1919.  Kirill had received permission to stay in Finland for another year, but he and Ducky decided it was time to move closer to family.  The couple was painfully aware that the Bolsheviks controlled Russia, and there would be no return to their previous, well-heeled life.  Most of their private fortune was gone, as the Soviet government had appropriated everything that had once belonged to the Imperial family.

  Once on German soil, the family stayed for two days with Ducky’s sister, Alexandra, the Princess of Hohenlohe-Langenburg, before traveling to  Munich for a reunion with Grand Duchess Marie Alexandrovna, a still proud and haughty woman,  who lost almost everything, including her home and her Romanov wealth.  Until her death, however, she received her Civil List appanage, as the widow of the Duke of Edinburgh.

It was a brief reunion as Marie died in October 1920.  She left  Chateau Fabron and the Edinburgh Palace to Ducky and Kirill, where they decided to settle, although Germany was now a republic.
 

Thus, Coburg became the family home.   Money was always tight, although relatives, such as Aunt Missy (Queen Marie of Romania), provided financial assistance.   Ducky reestablished close relationships with her sisters, especially Marie, and Beatrice, who was married to King Alfonso XIII’s cousin, Infante Alfonso of Bourbon-Orleans.   Marie and Beatrice’s children were the same age as Maria and Kira.     Marie – now the Queen of Roumania – had once described her nieces as “two splendid children, well-grown, solid, with lovely hair, and perfect skin, and as superlatively groomed as English ponies.”

Until her sister married and the death of her mother in 1936, Kira played the  Balalaika in the family’s orchestra.    She was also a competent pianist, preferring Chopin, and she had a “great devotion also for Beethoven and Wagner.”

Kira also enjoyed painting, a talent she inherited from her mother, who painted flowers and landscapes. She had a great passion for reading and described herself as a “voracious reader. " She preferred Tolstoy to all other writers, although she found Dostoevsky “unsurpassed as a writer of novels.”
She shared with her future husband a love of the outdoors and riding horses.  “The biggest compliment ever paid to me was when in America, during a tiring riding expedition, our host called me a ‘good sport’,” she said in a 1938 interview with the Associated Press.

As the great-granddaughter of a Russian emperor, Kira was born a princess of Russia with the qualification of Highness.  The circumstances of her elevation to the Grand Ducal rank and the qualification of Imperial Highness remain rooted in controversy.

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In 1922, Kira’s father, Grand Duke Kirill, issued a manifesto, declaring himself `Curator of the Throne.’  Two years later, he assumed the title of Emperor and elevated his two daughters and son to the rank of Grand Duchesses and Grand Duke with the style of Imperial Highness.   On September 20, 1924, The New York Times was among the first newspapers to report Kirill’s second proclamation. The paper reported a Berlin dispatch to the London Daily Mail stating that Kirill had signed a `proclamation declaring himself "Emperor of All the Russias.”'

"The Russian laws of Succession to the Throne," Kirill stated in the September manifesto, "do not permit the Imperial Throne to remain vacant after the death of the previous Emperor and His nearest Heirs has been established.  Also, in accordance with our laws, the new Emperor becomes such on the strength of the Law of Succession."

Succession to the Imperial throne was described in the Fundamental Laws, also known as the Pauline Laws.  Article 53 states that "on the demise of an emperor, his heir accedes to the Throne by the law of succession itself, which confers this right upon him.  The accession of an emperor to the Throne is counted from the day of the demise of his predecessor."  Kirill was the next male Romanov in line to the throne to become the new Emperor of all the Russias.

Although one may question the insensitivity of the timing of his announcement -- the Dowager Empress was still alive -- Kirill was the legitimate heir to the throne and entitled to make such a pronouncement.

The Fundamental State Laws of the Russian Empire on the Succession to the Throne (the Pauline laws), codified by Paul I and revised by Alexander III in 1888, included detailed rules on marriage, titles, inheritance, and succession to the throne.

As Kirill was the de jure Emperor, his children were entitled to grand ducal rank. This is found in Article 146, which provided for "the title of Grand Duke, Grand Duchess (daughter) and Imperial Highness belongs to the sons, daughters, brothers, sisters and, through the male issue, to all the grandchildren of an emperor."

While most members of the exiled Romanov family supported Kirill’s decision, despite their personal feelings toward him, some cousins continued to maintain that Kirill had no right to be the Tsar, even in exile.

As Grand Duke Kirill’s political activity increased, it became apparent that he and his family could no longer remain in Coburg. His position was now precarious, as Germany had established relations with the Soviet Government. The Bavarian government refused to expel Kirill; they made it clear that he was no longer welcome in Coburg. In the spring of 1926, the family moved to St. Briac in Brittany, where they purchased a small villa. The house was given a Breton name, Ker Argonid, which translates to Villa Victoria.

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Money remained a problem. Victoria Melita kept "the household going, and to pay for their children's education,” by selling her paintings of “exquisite watercolors from her beloved garden.”

 Kira’s elder sister, Maria, did not join them in Paris.  In 1925, she married Hereditary Prince Friedrich Karl of Leiningen, the son and heir of the Prince of Leiningen, the head of a wealthy mediatized family.  Kirill and Ducky were disappointed in the marriage.   They did not consider Friedrich Karl, a mere serene highness, suitable for a Russian Grand Duchess, even though Friedrich Karl’s father was a grandson of Queen Victoria’s older half-brother.  Nonetheless, Maria was happy in her marriage and was already the mother of an infant son.

   In 1927, Kira, a “raven-haired beauty,” turned eighteen. The young Grand Duchess, educated by tutors and governesses, was ready to move into the essential social circles to find a suitable husband, preferably one with a grand title ... and money.

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European papers published stories that Kira would marry King Boris III of Bulgaria.  The rumors were inevitable, as many believed Boris sought an Orthodox bride.  However, he had his heart set on a Roman Catholic princess, Giovanna of Italy, although, in 1929, the marriage faced several obstacles due to the princess’s faith.  The New York Times reported that “talk has now arisen here of a possible alliance between the King and the Grand Duchess Kira Vladimirovna, the 19-year-old daughter of Grand Duke Cyril, recently recognized as the head of the Romanoff family by a considerable section of Russian royalists.”

(King Boris and Giovanna married in 1930. )

This is the first part of the chapter, Grand Duchess Kira, that was published in 2004 in the book The Grand Duchesses.  The book is out of print.

https://royalmusingsblogspotcom.blogspot.com/2020/04/grand-duchess-kira-part-ii.html

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Grand Duchess Kira Part II

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 Thanks to her Aunt Marie, Kira was soon moving in the right circles. She had become friends with her Greek cousin, Princess Marina, whose mother, Helen, was Grand Duke Kirill’s only sister, and with the Crown Princess Juliana of the Netherlands. Princess Ileana of Roumania, another first cousin, was also a chum.

In December 1929, the 19-year-old Grand Duchess sailed to America to visit New York City and Washington, D.C., where she was feted and honored with lunches, balls, and dinner dances.  Two days before Christmas, Kira was a guest at a dinner hosted by Mr. and Mrs. William Jay Schieffelin and then joined them at a dinner dance at the Colony Club in New York.  Princess Enrico Ruspoli held a luncheon in Kira’s honor. 

The Grand Duchess had come to the US to help raise money for several Russian-related relief organizations, including the American Society for Relief of Russian Exiles.    Mrs. Henry P. Loomis "gave an entertainment" in the Florentine Room at the Park Lane Hotel for Kira, an event that marked the end of the Russian New Year.  A special Russian buffet was served, and the entertainment included the Moscow Art Trio, the Cossack Chorus, and other Russian entertainers.  Kira was joined by Princess Rusipoli and the Duchesse de Richelieu, who had given Kira dinner at her home the night before.   She was also the guest of honor at a talk on the plight of the Russian exiles abroad given by Mrs. Loomis at the Colony Club.

As an exile, Kira understood the need to publicize the critical cause.  She also represented her father, who, for many, was the Emperor of all the Russias.

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She returned to France in March, sailing on the Cunard liner, the Aquitania, having “expressed herself as being greatly pleased with America and Americans.”

During her visit to New York City, she spent an hour visiting the New York Times Annex, where she got a first look at a newspaper plant.   She found it “very impressive and interesting.”

She was asked about her favorite sports, which she said were “riding and airplane riding.”  Only a few weeks earlier, the young Grand Duchess had taken her first airplane ride, a half-hour-long flight in Bridgeport, Connecticut.  She thought that the flight was “splendid.”    She also enjoyed hearing jazz, which she said was “good for dancing, but otherwise is not music.”

Kira  added: “I cannot say what I liked best in America, but it will always have a warm spot in my heart.”

During her interview at the New York Times, she said she would not discuss politics, but noted Russian religious problems.  She also acknowledged rumors of an impending marriage.  “I know there have been many rumors of my engagement, but none of them are true.  At the moment I am not thinking of that.”

Kira’s social whirl continued throughout the summer of 1930, as she attended a series of balls and other functions in London.

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In November 1934, she was a bridesmaid at the wedding of her cousin, Marina, to Prince George, Duke of Kent.   Although Ducky had visited London often, this was Kirill’s first visit to Britain in more than 20 years.  They were treated as official guests of Victoria Melita’s cousin, King George V.  Although few knew of her sadness, Ducky managed to enjoy her stay.  Although she and Kirill put on a brave front, it was not common knowledge that their marriage had problems due to Kirill’s infidelity with an unnamed woman.  Ducky was devastated when she learned of the affair, and she poured her heart out to her older sister, Marie.


During this time in Britain, Kira realized the importance of her mother’s birth.  King George V respected that Victoria Melita was a Princess of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland.  For Ducky, this acknowledgment was a “bastion of stability” during these difficult times in exile.

Queen Marie had also asked her good friend, the American-born Nancy Astor to keep an eye on Victoria Melita and her family during their time in Britain.  Missy was painfully aware that her sister “the creature I love best in the world” was unable to accept the views of others. In a letter to Nancy Astor, she confided that Ducky’s life is “fearfully melancholy, isolated, depressing, and as you can see he is poor company.”

Ducky’s depression affected her younger daughter, as Missy noted.  “Kira can be awfully nice, but because of their humiliating position, she is always on her defensive.”

It was not until 1935 that plans for a possible marriage with Prince Louis Ferdinand came to fruition. Kira was in Paris when a family friend, Olga de Mumm, invited her to spend a week with her at her home at Johannisberg on the Rhine. The Russian-born de Mumm was the wife of the scion of the champagne family.

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Prince Louis Ferdinand had also been invited to Johannisberg, as Olga “had cherished the idea of a possible match” between the prince and Grand Duchess Kira.   Notwithstanding the close family connections, Kira’s parents were also in favor of a relationship.   Louis Ferdinand, after all, would one day be the head of the House of Hohenzollern, and Ducky, for one, was convinced that Adolf Hitler was going to restore the Hohenzollerns to their proper place in Berlin.

This was not the first time Kira met her cousin, Louis Ferdinand. When she was 16 years old, Kira and her cousin, Princess Sibylla of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha, visited Berlin, where Kira’s parents asked them to pay their respects to Crown Princess Cecilie, whose mother was a Russian Grand Duchess.

“We drove out to Cecilienhof and had tea with the Crown Princess.  This was the first time that I met my future mother-in-law.  I liked her immensely.  We spoke Russian together, and she asked about my family.”

Kira thought “Cecilienhof to be the loveliest place in the world.”    Of course, at age 16, she had no inkling that she would marry the Crown Princess’s son.  But she did meet Louis Ferdinand at this time, as Cecilie had asked him and his brother Hubertus to show their cousins around the garden. 

“We were all rather shy of each other ....I am certain that we flappers did not make much impression upon our nineteen- and eighteen-year-old cousins. Nor were Sibylla and I overly struck by them.”

At Sibylla’s wedding in 1931, several family members hatched a plan to arrange a marriage between Louis Ferdinand’s brother, Prince Wilhelm, and Sibylla’s cousin, Princess Ingrid of Sweden. Wilhelm appeared very late at the pre-wedding dinner and failed to make an impression on the Swedish Princess, who had recently been courted by another cousin, the Duke of Kent.  In 1935, she married the future King Frederik IX of Denmark.

If Wilhelm and Ingrid had married, it is unlikely that Louis Ferdinand would have pursued a relationship with Kira, Wilhelm would not have renounced his rights, and Louis Ferdinand may have remained in America, where he enjoyed working for Ford.   According to Kira, Wilhelm “failed to attract Ingrid and nothing came of the meeting.”

Olga de Mumm also encouraged Louis Ferdinand to join the weekend party.  To Kira, she had described the prince as “a most attractive young man,” who had an “affection for everything Russian.”  This, of course, appealed to Kira, “whose curiosity was aroused.”

One should not always rely on first impressions, as Louis Ferdinand thought Kira was “too conventional.” Kira quickly learned that the prince disliked “convention and reserve.”

After breakfast, they were “dispatched” for a walk where they got better acquainted.  Kira noted that Louis Ferdinand “did most of the talking,” but there was no flirtation between them.

However, Kira was determined “to seem casual” and “give an impression of offhandedness and superiority,” which irked Louis Ferdinand.     He also liked short hair on women.  Kira’s “golden tresses” reached beyond her waist.    They did share a mutual interest in playing poker.

The following day, Kira and Louis Ferdinand visited Kira’s sister, Maria, at her home in Amorbach.   Kira noted that Louis Ferdinand and Mashka “were friends at once; kindred spirits in their lack of and dislike for conventionalities, their use of strong words (to put it mildly, and very Slavic temperaments.”

Kira did not think her meeting with Louis Ferdinand was a success. Her sister, Mashka, told her to hug Lulu (the family’s nickname for Louis Ferdinand)in the hallway while the rest of the party napped during the afternoon. Kira said later, “We did not hug, but a spark of affection was kindled that evening," when Kira and Louis Ferdinand were driven back to Frankfurt to catch their respective trains.

The two agreed to meet again at “some indefinite future date,” but they would not write to each other or consider themselves “in no way bound.”   Kira acknowledged that she did give Lulu “an uncousinly kiss.”

It would be three years before Kira and Louis Ferdinand would meet again.  Her own life was beset with tragedy and sadness.  In December 1935, Kira’s mother, who was already in poor health, was in Wurzburg to be with Mashka, who was expecting her fifth child, a daughter, Mechtilde, who was born on January 2, 1936.  After Mashka had recovered from the birth, the family returned to Schloss Amorbach, the Leiningens’ family home, where Ducky’s condition further deteriorated.  

The day after  Mechtilde’s baptism, Victoria Melita suffered a stroke.  Kira arrived on February 5, only to find that her mother’s condition had worsened.  Ducky was already unconscious when Kirill and Wladimir arrived a few days later.   Grand Duchess Victoria Feodorovna died on March 2, 1936.  She was 59 years old.
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Kira tried to take her mother’s place, “to be a companion to my father and a mother to my younger brother.  I learned to think of others more than myself.”

Mashka noticed the change in her sister, telling her that Kira had become human.  “Mashka’s remark made me reflect on what an extremely selfish and self-centered person I had been before.”


Kira began the new year in 1937 in the Netherlands, where she was one of several bridesmaids at Crown Princess Juliana's marriage to Prince Bernhard of Lippe-Biesterfeld. By that fall, Kira was back in London as a guest of her mother’s youngest sister, Infanta Beatrice of Spain. It was another season of parties, balls, and charity functions. 

Kira joined her father and brother as the guests of honor at the Russian Charities Ball at Grosvenor House on December 2, 1937.  The ball benefited the Grand Duchess Kirill charity fund to aid the Russian Red Cross Society, the Russian Church in London, and other Russian benevolent organizations.   Several nights later, they joined the Infanta Beatrice and Queen Victoria Eugenie of Spain for a midnight matinée performance at the May Fair Hotel in aid of the Destitute Spanish Women and Children’s Relief Fund.

Beatrice also took it upon herself to find a husband for Kira, and the Prussian princes were at the top of her list.

“Aunty Bee thought it would be a splendid thing if Louis’s brother, Hubertus, and I could meet and come to like each other.”   It seemed that no one no longer considered a marriage between Kira and Louis Ferdinand.

“So I now became interested in Hubertus and thought no more of Louis.” 

But Hubertus never showed up, and Kira met the youngest brother, Prince Friedrich Georg, who was then living and working in London. He asked his mother if she would invite Kira and Wladimir to join the family for Christmas at Cecilienhof. 

Neither Hubertus nor Louis Ferdinand was home when Kira and her brother arrived, where they were welcomed by Crown Prince Wilhelm and Crown Princess Cecilie.   Louis Ferdinand arrived two days later.  Kira notes in her husband’s memoirs, The Rebel Prince, that when they met just before dinner, “Louis was very courteous.  I fancied even that I detected something new in his attitude towards me.  But I was not going to “kid” myself.  For my part, I felt at once and rather perturbing attracted to Louis.  Had we both changed?”

Kira didn’t know what Hubertus felt about her, but she knew that if “Fate was to give me the choice between him and his brother, Louis would win.”

The proposal came on December 23 as the family gathered to decorate the Christmas tree.  Kira noticed Louis looking at her.  “This time I felt sure that I interpreted his expression correctly.”


Prince Louis Ferdinand escorted Kira and Wladimir to their bedrooms.  After Wladimir had gone to bed,  Louis Ferdinand took Kira’s hand and said, “Well, how about it? Is it a deal?”

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After talking for an hour, Kira accepted Louis Ferdinand’s marriage proposal. Rather than wait until later that morning
on Christmas Eve, they proceeded to wake Wladimir and the Crown Prince and Princess, all of whom gave their blessings.
However, an official announcement could not be made until Kaiser Wilhelm in Doorn gave his permission for the marriage. 

The formal announcement came on December 29, 1937, when Kira and Louis Ferdinand joined the Kaiser and other family members at a dinner at Doorn.  Neither the Crown Prince,  suffering from a cold, nor Grand Duke Kirill, who was at home in St. Briac, attended the celebration.  Grand Duke Kirill was sent a telegram by Kira and Louis Ferdinand, announcing the engagement and adding that the Kaiser was delighted.   Grand Duke Wladimir was the only member of Kira’s family who attended the dinner.

Crown Princess Juliana of the Netherlands telephoned Kira to offer her good wishes and excitement at the news.

 “The greatest gathering of men and women of royal blood seen in many years,” gathered at a pre-wedding gala on April 30  at Cecilienhof.  The guests included King Ferdinand of Bulgaria, Crown Prince Frederik and Crown Princess Ingrid of Denmark, Princess Ileana of Romania and her husband, Archduke Anton of Austria, as well as nearly every member of the Prussian royal family, apart from Kaiser Wilhelm II.

Kira’s gown was far more resplendent than Louis Ferdinand’s grey German Air Force uniform.  She wore a "Schiaparelli evening gown of frosted silver on white."  It was low in the back and high in the front with a bodice richly encrusted with beads and silver embroidery.  She also wore a white fox cape occasionally.”

The bride’s entire trousseau was made in Paris by Schiaparelli.


As he could not attend the festivities in Potsdam, Kaiser Wilhelm wanted the wedding ceremony to be held at Doorn.  But because Haus Doorn could not accommodate all the guests, it was decided that the couple's civil ceremony, required by German law, would take place in Potsdam.  This was followed by the Russian Orthodox service at  Cecilienhof.

 According to Kira, the Bürgermeister, who officiated at the civil marriage,  “was a good man, though a Nazi official,” who tried to lend “dignity to the occasion.”    German law required that the newlyweds be presented with a copy of Hitler’s Mein Kampf, following the ceremony.  The only witnesses at the civil ceremony were Crown Prince Wilhelm and Grand Duke Kirill.

More than one hundred guests attended the Russian service. Kira wore a “magnificent gown" that had
belonged to her grandmother, Grand Duchess Marie of Russia, when she married Prince Alfred, Duke of
Edinburgh, in 1874. The gown was “a court dress of heavy, encrusted brocade,” with the train "more than two yards long, which hung from the waist and was richly encrusted with silver embroidery and pearls.”


The Russian wedding gown, which had been conserved at Coburg for 80 years, did not need alterations. Crown Princess Cecilie lent Kira a small tiara and a “very fine, old lace veil.”

At the Russian service, which was conducted in Old Slavonic, the bride was attended by Grand Duchess Anastasia of Mecklenburg. Her marshals were her brother, Wladimir, Grand Duke Dimitri of Russia, Prince Vsevolode of Russia, the Grand Duke of Mecklenburg-Schwerin, and his younger son, Duke Christian Ludwig.

Prince Louis Ferdinand was attended by his brothers, Hubertus and Friedrich, and his cousins, Princes Oskar, Burchard, and Karl Franz Joseph of Prussia.  Due to the “private character” of the wedding – and perhaps the omnipresent Nazis – no members of reigning royal houses were invited except for Louis Ferdinand’s aunt, Queen Alexandrine of Denmark (Cecilie’s sister), and her son and daughter-in-law, Crown Prince Frederik and Crown Princess Ingrid.

The marriage vows were repeated two days later on May 4 in a Lutheran service at Doorn.

Kira’s close friends, Crown Princess Juliana and Prince Bernhard of the Netherlands, were guests at the festivities at Doorn.


“My dear Louis Ferdinand, you have a task,” the Kaiser urged in a “deeply moved voice.”

You can fulfill it only with the help of God. Under His blessing and with a strong belief in His Son, our Master, I hope you can build your house. 

“Work with all your might to honor God, to the honor of our house, and to the honor of our German Fatherland, and be an example to your people,” he said, raising his glass in a toast to the newly married couple.

The wedding reminded many of “the glamour of imperial courts,” which the National Socialists did not encourage or appreciate.

Despite Kira’s parents, especially her mother’s, vocal support for the Nazis, neither Kira nor Louis Ferdinand considered Adolf Hitler to be the Savior for Germany.    It came as no surprise that their honeymoon was primarily spent in the United States.

Some years later, Prince Louis Ferdinand discussed how his older brother’s marriage changed his plans to stay in America.  Wilhelm’s decision to marry Dorothea von Salviati in 1933 profoundly affected Louis Ferdinand’s life.   “Well, yes, in a very definite way because I had planned on staying in the United States – I had emigrated really; I had an emigration visa, so it only would have taken me one or two years to get American citizenship.  I had it renewed up to the last moment until I got married.  I always could have gone back.  But then I said - no, no.”



He added that he would have been happy to stay in America.  “Probably yes.  But my marriage so definitely changed my whole life and made me very, very happy.  I don’t think I would have found somebody like my wife there.”

After the reception, Lulu and Kira returned to Germany, where they began an around-the-world trip, a present from the Kaiser. 

The couple received numerous gifts, including “a necklace pendant of studded blue sapphires with a rare yellow sapphire in the middle.”  The necklace was a gift from King Boris.  The Kaiser’s present was a diamond and platinum necklace with matching earrings. Queen Elizabeth and King George VI sent an “elaborate traveling toilet case with fittings in delicately worked gold.” 

Kira's mother-in-law gave her a sapphire pendant, and the Queen of Denmark gave her a diamond butterfly brooch and a silver toilet.

Marriage gave Kira official citizenship, albeit as a citizen of the Third Reich, although she had spent a large part of her youth in Coburg, where she “romped with her closest chum,” Princess Sibylla of Sweden.   The language would not prove difficult as she was fluent in German, French, and Russian.  English, however, was the language that she spoke at home with her parents. 

Exile and the tragedy of the Russian Revolution had shaped her own sympathies. “The experience of our family has given me a great human understanding,” Kira said in a pre-wedding interview with the American news organization, the Associated Press.  “I am much more interested in people than I am in their calling or their station in life.  It isn’t the social calendar that interests me, but the intrinsic worth of people.”

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  Kira and Louis Ferdinand were passionate about their enthusiasm for America and Americans. 

  “It’s as though a champagne bottle had been uncorked. – that’s how the exuberance and joy-of-living of the Americans affect me,” Kira added, as she “flicked the ashes of her American cigarette.”

She noted that her experience of the United States was limited to Philadelphia, New York, Washington, D.C., and Florida, but with “Lulu, who knows America like a book, I expect to see much more of your country during our honeymoon.”

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The new Prince and Princess Louis Ferdinand of Prussia arrived in New York City on May 26, having sailed on the SS  Bremen.    In an interview in the ship’s Ritz-Carlton restaurant, the newlyweds said  their marriage was a “love match.”   Although their touring plans remained tentative, they hoped to visit the American historian Poultney Bigelow at his home in Malden on Hudson, New York.  Bigelow was an old friend of the Kaiser’s and had recently returned home from his annual visit to Doorn.  Lulu and Kira were invited to Hyde Park to visit President Franklin Delano Roosevelt’s mother, Sarah.  The President was also expected to join them at Hyde Park.

The honeymoon plans included a trip to Detroit where they visited the Ford Motor plant, the West Coast, and then sailed to Hawaii and the Orient.    The couple spent four weeks in Hawaii, where they learned that Kira was pregnant with their first child.

They were in the Far East when they learned that Kira’s father, Grand Duke Kirill, died in Paris on October 16.  He was 62 years old and had suffered from arteriosclerosis.  Kira’s younger brother, Wladimir, was now the de jure Russian emperor and head of the House of Romanov.   Louis Ferdinand and Kira could not return to Paris to attend Kirill's funera.

Louis Ferdinand and Kira returned to Europe in late November. They traveled to Doorn, where Wilhelm II welcomed them home with a bouquet of roses. He turned to Kira, acknowledging her condition, and said, “Now be a good girl, and lie down right away.”

Kira and Louis Ferdinand moved into a new home in one of Berlin’s leafy suburbs, Grünewald, where Henry Ford’s wedding present, a blue Ford Cabriolet, was parked outside.   It was challenging to maintain normality as the possibility of war drew even closer.    “Kira applied all her art of interior decorating to make it [the house] even more gemütlich ... Kira, who loves music no less than I do, thoroughly approved of my bachelor habit of inviting musicians,” Louis Ferdinand wrote in his memoirs, Rebel Prince.

Shortly before midnight, on February 9, 1939, Kira gave birth to the couple’s first son.  As the German press was forbidden to mention even the name of Louis Ferdinand’s family in the papers,  Louis Ferdinand “played a trick,” by inserting a paid birth announcement in several German newspapers.   Louis Lochner, one of Louis Ferdinand’s closest friends – and an American – made sure that the news got out of Germany. 


The little boy was to have been called Louis Ferdinand, but the Kaiser insisted on family tradition that the child be known as Friedrich Wilhelm.   The baptism took place at Cecilienhof in April 1939.  The little prince was named Louis Ferdinand Friedrich Wilhelm Hubertus Michael Kirill,  but he was styled as HRH Prince Friedrich Wilhelm of Prussia.  None of the godparents – Crown Prince Frederik of Denmark, Louis Ferdinand’s first cousin, Princess Sibylla of Sweden, and Crown Princess Juliana of the Netherlands – attended the ceremony.

After the christening,  Kira and Louis Ferdinand drove to Doorn so that the Kaiser could meet the baby.  Kira stayed with Wilhelm II, who doted on her and his first great-grandson, while Louis Ferdinand did his air service near Hanover.

Prince Louis Ferdinand, who had been on a year’s leave with Lufthansa, the German airline, decided it would be best if he did not return to his job.  It was more critical for him to concentrate on family matters.  Hitler’s invasion of Poland in September 1939 meant that Louis Ferdinand would have to report for duty in the German Air Force.  His unit was made up mostly of former Lufthansa employees.

Kira gave birth to a second son on Good Friday, March 22, 1940.    They wanted to name their son Michael, but the Kaiser intervened.  The new baby was born on Wilhelm I’s birthday, and as the Kaiser greatly admired his grandfather, he insisted that the boy be named Wilhelm Heinrich. 

 The baby was baptized at home on Kira’s birthday. Pastor Bruno Doehring, who had performed their Lutheran wedding, christened the prince Wilhelm Heinrich Michael Louis Ferdinand Friedrich Franz Wladimir. Despite the Kaiser’s wish, Kira’s second son has always been known as Michael or Mikie.

Adolf Hitler tried to use Kaiser Wilhelm II’s death in June 1941 as a political statement.  The family feared that the Nazi dictator would bring the Kaiser’s remains back to Germany for an elaborate funeral. In 1933, the former Kaiser added a codicil to his will, stating he did want to be buried in Nazi Germany. He also did not wish to have any symbols of National Socialism at his funeral. 

Louis Ferdinand’s position became more precarious after the deaths of his grandfather and his older brother, who had been killed in action in 1941.  His own commander knew that Louis Ferdinand was not enthusiastic about the Nazis.   The prince was transferred to Klützow, an airport in Pomerania, where he qualified as an instructor.   Kira, although she enjoyed her life in Berlin, was delighted to move to the country away from air raids and other issues.  They moved into a family property, Schloss Cadinen, which had not been used since before the First World War.   As the Schloss's first floor was open to the public, Kira, Louis Ferdinand, and their growing family moved into the second floor. 

It was after Prince Wilhelm’s funeral that Adolf Hitler gave a secret order that removed members of Germany’s former ruling families from the armed forces.  No prince could be sent to the front lines, as “Hitler and his henchmen feared that popular discontent with the regime might lead to a counter-revolution in favor of restoring the monarchy.”

After they learned about Hitler's secret order, Louis Ferdinand and Kira knew there would be no promotion in the Luftwaffe. The prince and his father discussed the situation, deciding that the best—the safest—thing to do was to resign his commission. He received an honorable discharge on December 30, 1941. 

Crown Prince Wilhelm decided that Louis Ferdinand could take over running Cadinen. Louis Ferdinand felt that this was a “natural solution” to stay at Cadinen for the duration of the war and “for many years after.” 

Their Berlin house was closed, and the furniture was brought to Cadinen.  Kira’s furniture, which had been sold after her father’s death, was also added to the house’s decor from her home in Coburg.  Cadinen “became cozy and livable.”

At Cadinen, Kira gave birth to her third and fourth children, Marie-Cécilé Kira Viktoria Luise and Kira Auguste Viktoria Friederike of Prussia,  born in 1942 and 1943.

But the family was also being watched by local Nazi administrators, who “terrorized” Louis Ferdinand’s farm laborers.  It was difficult for Kira and Louis Ferdinand to trust their workers, as they knew most of their employees were spying on them.  As Louis Ferdinand wrote in his memoirs, “Nobody suspected that the Gutsherr of Cadinen was up to his neck in a conspiracy against Hitler and his regime.”

Kira and Louis Ferdinand adored Cadinen. They considered the East Prussian estate to be their home.  They believed that they would remain on the estate for years to come.  But by the summer of 1944, they knew that life at Cadinen was coming to an end, as Soviet armed forces were moving west toward East Prussia.  Kira was expecting a child that August, and she and her husband discussed leaving the children and heading westward.  Louis Ferdinand confided his fears to trusted friends, who advised them to leave East Prussia and head for a family estate west of the Oder River.


On July 20, 1944, an attempt was made on Hitler’s life, although he survived.  Although not directly involved with the plot to kill Hitler, Prince Louis Ferdinand was in contact with several of the men involved in the plot.   He was openly anti-Nazi, but even the local Gestapo never learned of Louis Ferdinand’s meetings with others to discuss and plan Germany's future after Hitler’s defeat.
The failed plot was compounded by Soviet troops marching west toward Berlin.  Louis Ferdinand had no choice but to get his family out of Cadinen.  Kira was distraught and tired, as Michael was suffering from meningitis.

Both knew that the Gestapo would soon be knocking at the door.  Despite her fear for her young son, Kira was completely aware that she and the children would have to leave Cadinen.  “Never have I adored my wife as deeply at the moment.”

This would be the third time Kira lost her home, “including the last of her personal belongings and art objects.”

Kira - a Russian Grand Duchess – knew what was expected of her and what to do.   She kept her fears in check as she dealt with her son’s illness and the immediate possibility of her husband’s arrest.  “But she lived up to the occasion – every inch a mother, a wife, a princess.”

Louis Ferdinand arranged for his wife and children to move to Golzaw, Neumark, another family estate.   Michael’s health began to improve as the convulsions ceased.  The little boy was out of danger, and the family could leave.  Kira’s doctor advised that they travel soon, as the baby was due in less than four weeks.  The trains were still moving westward, and Louis Ferdinand, with the assistance of several friends, was able to make travel arrangements.   Their departure was nearly ruined when the Gestapo arrived to question the prince about his involvement in the July 20  plot.    But after a seven-hour session at Cadinen, the officers left, satisfied that they had no further information about the prince’s involvement in the plot.

On August 25, 1944, at Golzow, Kira gave birth to a fifth child, Louis Ferdinand.  After the baby’s christening, Kira and Louis Ferdinand returned to Cadinen for three weeks.  It was “the quiet before the storm on the Eastern front.”   Kira packed up winter clothes and other possessions to bring to Golzow. She knew that this would be her last visit to her beloved home.  As the estate's administrator, Louis Ferdinand returned one more time.  He knew he had to “keep up appearances” for the benefit of the local Gestapo.  The evacuation came in January 1945, although the Nazis tried to convince the residents that nothing untoward was going to happen to them.  This was difficult to believe as scores of German officials were also fleeing westward as the Soviets moved closer. 


Louis Ferdinand knew it was time to leave.  The men who remained in Cadinen were deported by the Soviets, and many died en route to the Soviet Union.    The prince traveled to Danzig, where he got on one of the last trains heading west.   When he reached a town a few miles near Golzow, he ran into a friend who told him that his family had already fled Golzow and were headed toward Potsdam.

  Kira had no idea what had happened to her husband.  She feared that he had been taken prisoner by the Red Army.  But she and her children were also in danger at Golzow.  Thanks to friends, Crown Princess Cecilie sent a truck and a car to Golzow to bring Kira, the children, and other family members back to Potsdam.

On January 23, 1945, Kira wrote in her diary: “The next few days and the coming weeks, perhaps months, will be the most fateful in our lives.... The worst has not yet happened to us.”   She was worried about her husband as she had not heard from him in days. “Lulu is in Cadinen.  I know nothing of what is going on there.... Every thought of mine is with him; I long to be at his side, to be of use there at home, to share his burden of responsibility and worry.  I do not think out our beloved home, of all that we may lose.  Others, too, lost all their all and still must face life.  We shall build another home, wherever that may be, and still be happy.   If only God grants us to remain together and keep our children safe.”

On January 24,   Prince Hubertus, his wife, Madeleine, and their infant daughter, Anastasia, arrived at Golzow.  Kira was told about Crown Princess Cecilie’s plan to bring her and the children back to Potsdam.   Kira decided it would be best not to tell the children until it was time to leave.    The truck arrived the next day, as did a letter from Louis Ferdinand and news of the evacuation from Cadinen.

Kira and the children reached Cecilienhof on the 27th.  Crown Princess Cecilie was happy to have her family under her roof again.  That evening, a delighted Kira received news of Lulu, who was making his way to Potsdam.   He arrived at the palace, “tired out, grimy, without luggage, but well,” on the morning of the 29th.   Knowing that it was impossible to stay in Potsdam as the Soviet troops were expected soon, Kira decided, even before Louis Ferdinand’s arrival, to move further westward to Bad Kissingen.

Now, at least, the family could leave together, which they did later that day, although the journey was a “nightmare.”  Once they arrived in Kissingen, they settled into two rooms, which would be their home for the next year.

Louis Ferdinand noted that the new home was a “come down.”  Kira responded: “Let’s be thankful that we are all united and alive; so many people aren’t.”

Shortly afterward, Crown Princess Cecilie,  Prince Hubertus, and his family fled Potsdam and arrived in Kissingen.  The Crown Prince was safe in Bavaria.


The war's end in May 1945 did not mean an end to the family’s difficulties.  Nearly everything they owned was gone, now lost to Soviet occupiers. They were refugees in their own country.   Louis Ferdinand’s contacts with the American military made life a bit easier as he was sought out for his views on a postwar Germany.   In December 1947, Louis Ferdinand moved his family, now six children, as Kira had given birth to a fourth son, Christian-Sigismund, in March 1946, to a home in Borgfeld, a suburb of Bremen.   In December 1949, 40-year-old Kira gave birth to a seventh child, a daughter, who was baptized with a Russian first name, Xenia.


Post-war Germany brought new challenges to the family, as so much was lost during the war, including a significant portion of the Prussian estates that Louis Ferdinand would have inherited following his father's death in 1951.

After the Second World War, Kira organized a special aid program for refugees from former German provinces, now in Poland.


It was not until May 1951 that Kira and Louis Ferdinand traveled outside Germany since the
start of the Second World War. They boarded a steamer in Hamburg and sailed to Barcelona, traveling
“like any other citizens.” 

 From Barcelona, they traveled to Madrid, where they were met by Kira’s brother, Wladimir, and his wife, Leonida.   This was a time for a family reunion between Kira and her younger brother, who had settled in Madrid four years earlier.  It was while they were in Madrid that they learned that the Crown Prince had suffered a heart attack.   Louis Ferdinand was assured that the doctors were not worried about his father’s heart condition.  After returning to Bremen in July, the prince called his father, who said he was feeling much better.   

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On July 20, 1951, Crown Prince Wilhelm suffered another heart attack and died in the wee hours of the morning.  Prince Louis Ferdinand succeeded as the de jure Kaiser and the official head of the House of Hohenzollern.  Despite losing several estates in what was now East Germany,  Louis Ferdinand restored a good percentage of the family fortune.   Bremen had become the family home, although Louis Ferdinand maintained an office in West Berlin.

Later in the year, the family suffered another loss when Kira’s older sister, Maria, 44, who was in Madrid visiting her brother, suffered a heart attack and died. 

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By the early 1960s, Kira’s elder children were approaching an age where the question of acceptable marriages would arise.  The Grand Duchess and her husband certainly believed that their children, especially their elder sons, would make equal marriages.   Unfortunately, neither Prince Friedrich Wilhelm nor Prince Michael made marriages acceptable for inheritance purposes.  Both were required to renounce their rights when they married Waldtraud Freydag and Jutta Jörn, respectively.

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Princess Marie Cecile’s 1965 marriage to Duke Friedrich August of Oldenburg was approved as an equal marriage.

Kira was visiting her brother, Wladimir, at St. Briac, where she suffered a stroke, “brought on by an excessive fondness for food.” She died there on September 7, 1967.  She was buried in the family vault at Schloss Hechingen.  Some years later, her coffin was cracked by tremors from an earthquake.

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In an interview with Hello magazine in the early 1990s, Prince Louis Ferdinand said he was “immensely grateful” because “life has been extraordinary, despite all the ups and downs. I married a marvellous woman, Princess Kira, who died too soon, unfortunately. We had seven children. We were a very close and very happy family. I thank God for all of this.”          
   
Although she knew the difficulties, one of Grand Duchess Kira’s greatest wishes was to visit her homeland.    Throughout her life, she maintained an interest in Russian charities, instilling a love of the country in her children, especially her daughter, Kira, who continued her mother’s work after her death.

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